love;

No one actually needs another person or another person's love to survive. Love is when we have irrationally convinced ourselves that we do. They should tell you when you’re born: have a suitcase heart, be ready to travel.
and if it is a 'real' emotion and not just in our minds, I don't like it. love is a greedy toddler who knows only the word 'mine. And it is a lie that people who love each other must know everything about each other, Love must occasionally allow for a gap. Unrequited love isn't that bad, there's a pleasure to loving someone even when you know there's no chance in them loving you back. The pain i've felt let me know i was still alive. In my opinion, When you love someone, you put their needs before your own. No matter how inconceivable those needs are; no matter how fucked up; no matter how much it maks you feel like you're ripping yourself into pieces. Many times with guys I have been a victim of my own optimism.
Physical attraction is not an option. The difference between sex and love is that sex relieves tension and love causes it. Still, Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex.